This is the problem I want to have...

We're all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if
you've been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there's
no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because
you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are
wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow
fully into your own wrongness. It isn't until you finally run up
against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems - the ones that
make you truly who you are - that you're ready to find a lifelong
mate. Only then do you finally know what you're looking for. You're
looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person; it has
got to be the right wrong person - someone you lovingly gaze upon and
think, "This is the problem I want to have."